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10 Reasons You Might Not be Getting A Second Date

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1. You were too quiet

2. You’re being too serious

3. You didn’t pick up the bill

4. You were rude to the restaurant staff

5. You ordered water

6. You ordered for her, and she didn’t like what you picked

7. You were too touchy-freely
8. You talked about politics the whole
time

9. You talked about yourself the whole
time.

10. You didn’t dress up

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9. 당신은 자신의 자랑에 대한 이야기만 늘어놓았습니다.

9. You talked about yourself the whole time.

10. You didn’t dress up

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9. You talked about yourself the whole time.

You were so concerned about making sure she knew all about you and your accomplishments that you forgot to ask her about herself.

Recommend: Go into the date with the mindset that it is ALL about HER. Your intentions should be to get to know her and show interest in everything she has to say. ASK more than you TELL. Women want to talk about themselves, but they just want to be asked questions before they spill. It shows that you care, and that in itself, is flattering. Ideally, the question asking will be balanced, so you can both share, listen, react, and relate.

9. 당신은 자신의 자랑에 대한 이야기만 늘어놓았습니다.

당신은 그녀에 대해 물어보는 것은 잊어버린채, 그녀가 당신의 장점이나 당신에 대한 모든것을 아는것에  집중했습니다.  

조언 : 그녀에 관한 모든 것을 알아보는 사고 방식으로 데이트하십시오. 당신의 의도는 그녀를 알아가고 그녀가 말하는 모든 것에 관심을 보이는 것입니다. 당신이 말을 많이 하는 것보다는 그녀에게  더 많이 물어보세요. 여성은 자신에 대해 이야기하고 싶어하지만, 그 전에 질문을 받기를 원합니다. 그것은 당신이 관심을 가지고 있다는 것으로,   그 자체가 당신의 좋은 면을 보여줍니다. 이상적으로, 질문의 균형을 이루어 짐으로서, 서로 공감하고,  듣고,  그것에 반응하면서 상호작용 할수있습니다. 

10. You didn’t dress up

You showed up to the date in jeans and a t-shirt, tennis shoes and a hat, or your clothes were, oversized, wrinkled, dirty, smelly, out of style, or sloppy. (We’ve heard it all)

Recommend: Look presentable; it goes a long way. Women appreciate a man who takes pride in his hygiene and appearance. Dressing up and looking sharp shows her that you care and that you made an effort, and effort never gets old. So if you have no idea what to wear, opt for some dark, slim jeans and a well-fitting button up shirt. Nice shoes and a jacket really tie it together nicely. Shower, make sure your hair looks nice, and make sure your clothes are clean, because there is nothing sexy about the smell of dirty hair or musty need-to-laundered clothes.